Accredited Relationship and Divorce Master Coach
An Expert in Relationships, Dating, Separation, Divorce and Domestic Abuse
I’m Vanessa, an Accredited Relationship and Divorce Master Coach. I understand the challenges of relationship issues, domestic abuse, divorce, single parenting, dating and finding my self-belief and worth because I have been there, where you are. Everything might feel hopeless to you right now, but I am proof that you can come out the other side to lead a happy and fulfilled life, free of the negative emotions and feelings associated with unhealthy and unhappy relationships, separation, breakup, or divorce.
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Where have I come from professionally? I am a Dietitian with a Nutrition degree; more recently however I have worked in Education and I am also a trained Crisis Counsellor which I do on a voluntary basis currently. I am experienced at working with neurodivergent individuals
I have four wonderful children, a dog, I lead a full life and most importantly, I am happy. That all sounds very pleasant and simple but believe me, getting to this place hasn’t been. I am divorced after a long marriage and I have lived through years of a coercively controlling, highly abusive/narcissistic relationship, which as is so common, continued post-separation. I thought it was never going to end. But it did and it can for you too.
Whether you are in a relationship, trying to avoid divorce; separated and heartbroken, or trying to find new love that is healthy and fulfilling, I want to support you emotionally and practically and empower you to create the future you desire.
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Why did I become a Breakup and Divorce Coach?
I was heartbroken, sad, alone, had no confidence or self-belief and thought I would never be in charge of my own life or happy again. I don’t want others to stay stuck feeling like I did, continually spiralling down. It would have meant everything if I had had someone like me offering support while I was going through my difficult divorce. Someone to not only support me emotionally, but also give practical techniques and strategies on how to start gradually turning things around; to shine a light on the issues and shift my focus so I could climb upwards instead of freefalling. I would love to be that person for you.
That’s why I have trained to become an expert Relationship and Divorce Coach with Sara Davison. I am passionate about using both my unique personal experiences and my expert knowledge to support and inspire individuals like you to make positive changes to build a better, happier future.
What About You?
You are the reason I do this. Although every breakup is different with a unique set of circumstances, I can empathise and understand your hurdles and the emotional rollercoaster you might be experiencing. My training also allows me to give you techniques and strategies to help you get results. Whatever stage of your breakup, I can work with you – before you actually separate, if you and your partner have just separated, or it’s years after your breakup or divorce and you feel stuck and just cannot move forward.
You deserve to feel supported. No one should feel alone with no idea which way to turn. In my experience, it is not JUST about getting the emotions in check, but it is also leaning HOW you can change things and that is where I come in. How do you feel about giving it a go and working with me? I believe this is your chance to get clarity, take control, take your power back and create the brighter, happier future that you want.
